Funny you don't know me but assume I lack self respect...that's a great one. Why is it that I am being attacked here by you? How can you even begin to judge me?
So what? I make different choices than you. Big Deal!!!! You make your choices for your life and situation and I will make mine. Mine may not work for me and hell, yours may prove to be fruitless for you too. So in the end we will compare notes. Neither one of us may be any better off than the other.
Needing male companionship does not mean that the woman needing it lacks self respect or self love...it means in my case that I don't know how to be alone and quite honestly don't want to be alone. I enjoy friendships with both men and women and this friendship with a man turned into a sexual relationship as well. Sure you don't agree and neither do most here however I only post my lifes details here as a means to lay it out on the table...get advice, opinions, and also share something that may help someone else or in the end save a marriage whether or not it's mine. None of this makes what I am doing wrong, just different than the norm for this group. Honestly maybe just sitting back and reading what I post and trying to see a different side would be OK for you to do...not just instantly force your judgements and 'shame on you Heather' mentality onto me.
I do appreciate your opinion as you are entitled to them as much as anyone else however the insults are not needed just as you don't want them from FG.
Both 35 T 19/M 15 years S8/D5 It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07
