My W told me in the MC meeting that she would stop with the hugs. Okay, it hurt I'm a big boy so I've decided to go dark. Only call when she calls and return her calls when I feel like it. It's only been one day...
Yesterday, when I left for work I said goodbye. No hug She asked if I could take D to bowling with me while she worked. We have an arrangement that Tuesday is my night out, but I agreed to take D. My W calls my work to make sure its okay. I didn't return her call. She drops D off and then calls to tell me she dropped D off. I missed the call and failed to return her call. The bowling center is not a strange place for my D so I don't know why my W called.
Last night my W called to say she will be coming home late. Ok so she wil be coming home late. She came home late and I was still up working on my SS's laptop. She noticed the bedroom light is on so she calls me to let me know there's a skunk in the driveway and if I could unlock the front door. It's not a problem so I unlock the door.
This morning I gave her a grocery list of things we needed. I say goodbye and leave for work. My W gets up and says she's not sure if she's suppose to do this but gives me a hug. My answer; do what you want to do. She called me at work and left a message about an item on the list. I didn't return her call right away. When I called it was too late, but it didn't bother me. She got what I wanted and if she didn't I would of gotten it myself. She told me why she went to bed so late lastnight. She was watching a televison show.
What do I do! Going dark doesn't work in one day???
What level of darkness should I try in my sitch? I don't want to get hurt again.
