Only you can decide what is best in regards to the bedroom deal. If the communcation verbal and non verbal indicates she wants that, then maybe, you would be listening to her. On the flip side you don't want to foster anymore distance than you already have.
Maybe you could ask her if she would prefer you move to the other room.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!