I was cleaning out H's junky old car--hard work! In the glove compartment I found an instruction book to a new cell phone that H had gotten at some point, which I never saw. He always had the work phone with him when I was around. H hasn't used that car in about 2 years so I think the affair was going on WAY before I found out in December obviously b/c why else a secret cell phone? I don't even know what to think at this point! Karen