Hi, Char...just noticed your thread, and was trying to catch up with it. I guess I was a WAS, but I HATE hearing myself described as that. I was going through motions in the A, but when H found out, I was so sick thinking about what it would be like to really LEAVE, I could hardly walk. I know, in hindsight, that I was never intending to leave. It just felt good to have someone "after" me, telling me how great I was, etc. etc. I was definitely in a FOG!
I'm not sure I understand your question, I think I need to read up on your previous thread. But, my H (Sadbuthopeful) and I are both on here - I joined after I "woke up" - and it has mostly been good, but it is hard at times to read his posts. I try to read them when I'm feeling ok, when I have time to respond &/or regroup if I'm upset. When I'm just in need of support for myself, I stay away from his thread. It works ok. Except for the one time I ended up reading a post he wrote on Jethro's thread - and my computer monitor died before I got the the end of his post where he said he was mostly hopeful!!! We have had to have some discussions about things we've written on here, but, that's just good R work, I think!
Good luck...glad you had a good dinner out!!!
My manners are usually most tested with spaghetti (letting the excess ends just fall back onto the plate) - but I'll have to be more careful next time I have carrots julienne!!!!!
