I know that following your sitch, I have taken a lot of the advice that has been given to you. It appears that you are in the final stages of something good. It sounds like going dim on her, only responding to her when she initiates it, and going around like "Hakuna Matada" is the way to go. Then giving the darts that Puppy has offered in response to rudeness helps set your boundaries in the mean time. All appearances seem like you are so close, but of course there is the so far part.


Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."