We went out to a ^*~fancy~*^ restaurant tonight. In fact, we've been out more in these last three months than we've been out in the last five years. It was funny... I was trying to act like it was a date? You know, not stuffing a huge wad of julienned carrots in my mouth and chewing off the ends so they land on the plate.... haha ha ha ha aha... kidding, well... sorta
(I gots mad class :P).
lostlove, I know, I know... and I did tell him where I was coming from... i mean, he can ask me "what's wrong" at almost anytime and if he *forces* the issue I can almost always come up with something, even if it's just the fact that he's asking.
resentments are interesting little things
i can remember a number of times today when
that little bugger crept up on my shoulder
and I didn't say anything about it
and now I'm sitting here
and...
what were they again???
I think when we ask our S's "what's wrong", and they say "nothing", then we should just walk away and not worry if they're mad at us. It's about letting people own and control the release of their emotions.
btw ~ i like you guys i'm glad you're all here thanks for helping me out