Jak, Matilda, and Piecing Friends, At the dance last night, a lady who is a regular dance partner of mine asked me if I wanted to practice with her. I didn't respond. She had called me a few weeks ago, to see if I was interested in joining her for a dance she was going to. I didn't return the call.
My W has given me permission to practice with other ladies. After the dance, I told my W that this lady had asked me to practice with her. Her focus was more on having the house cleaned if she came to my place.
The reason I'm considering it, is this lady has been dancing for years, and I could learn from her. I'm not clear if her motive is purely to have a practice partner and she likes me, or if there is another agenda (sexual). I'm not sure if she knows whether or not I'm in a committed R.
It would be great if I could participate in a platonic dance practice R, for the purpose of improving my dancing, and developing a deeper partnership with another dancer. My W said that as long as our dance partnership isn't compromised, than she's OK with it.
My W has had two dance partnerships over the years. The one she used to practice at our home on a regular basis, she has become friends with, and the other she competed with last year, and now enjoys dancing with him.
I'm going to think about this for now. This is new territory for me.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
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