You guys are right, thanks. As far as I know, it never happened! Problem solved
I will continue to "stick to the plan"--no contact from me, let H do what H wants to do.
I know it wasn't THAT big a deal, it was just a little embarrassing for me. But fortunately, H has known my mom for 20 years so he knows what she is like and I am sure he won't hold me accountable.....
It is 70 today and I get to go to an in-service for teachers now. Sit in a stuffy lunchroom and listen to some "experts" tell me how to do my job better.
