BIG UPDATE: H told me on Friday that he was working on transitioning out of his condo to move back home, if it was OK with me. He gave notice to his landlord and is trying to get rid of some of the stuff he bought when he moved in. I told him that I wanted him to be sure that he is doing this because he wants to, not because he feels he needs to (money reasons). He said it was both needing to and wanting to. He told the older kids yesterday.
I'm a little shocked, worried, happy, relieved. I just want to be sure that we are moving forward and don't end up back in the place where we were last year when things went south.
I guess I am officially "piecing"...yikes!
So far things are going well. H has been staying at the house every night, even though he's still officially in the condo. I'm having a few "freak-out" moments, when all of the unresolved issues start dominating my thoughts. I know we have alot to work on, so I'm going into this with my eyes wide open. I hope he is too.
Jack- Thanks for stopping by. I appreciate the reminders to focus on what works.
