W2G, great to have you back! It sounds like you and H spent a nice week together. It's probably for the best that things are proceeding slowly - when H does recommit to the M you want it to be for the right reasons. The real estate investment is huge news. Certainly doesn't sound like he's thinking about leaving the M.
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"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz