There is nothing that says that you have to be ready for that talk right now. Take your time and wait things out and see how you feel say a month from now or 2 months from now. The one thing I have really learned from all of this is that I have to do things when I feel comfortable with it and not when others tell me to or look at anyone time line. I have to be comfortable with my choices and when I am ready, I know.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08