Actions my friend. Actions speak louder than words. Lets face it, cheaters lie and will tell you whatever they think you need to hear to keep things "Status Quo" and continue cake-eating. I sincerely hope and pray she is ready to do what it takes and I'm pulling for you, but time will tell if she is really going to do this.

Not trying to burst your bubble, but just a caveat to you...keep doing things for you and let her do some of the work to make it right. Change the things within yourself you want to change and the rest will take care of itself.

Have a great day and I really do hope things are on the up-swing for you, that'd be a WONDERFUL thing to have happen to someone here.

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option