H started R talk last night and was asking "what if" questions about coming home. He is not even close to the right headspace for me to consider it right now, but it was kind of a shock.

There were a few tense moments, but for the most part it was pretty good. He accused me at one point of "trying to lay down the law and that if I wanted to be with him, then that wouldn't work." My reply was that I was simply telling him what I would and wouldnt be able to accept and if that was a problem then it was his problem. At the end of the conversation that we didn't need to solve everything in 1 night and that it was a start...we'll see.

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option