Well W called this morning,Asked if we could go to the bank and cash the tax checks,I politely told her no.W said i need the money to get my car fixed,and why are you trying to ruin my life!I said i was sorry if you are taking it this way,because that is not my intention.Im not trying to ruin your life.I have a responsibility to my sons.She just keep getting madder you could here it in her voice!Then she just said talk later bye.Most detached conversation i have had yet,remained calm all the way through,said sorry to her three times during.Went excellent and felt in total controll afterwards!!
Me:42 W:41 Married 22 seperated12-31-07,served papers 2-29-08 S21-S20 partialy disabled S17 Divorce sighed 10-7-08 final 90 days after
