At the moment the law isn't requiring anything as I haven't actually been served with any papers and the financial disclosure is voluntary.
My decision is whether when the papers come I agree to it or I contest it (which will be more costly). As Naej said I could fight and (by some miracle) win but when he has been left 5 yrs (ie another 2.5yrs) he can get a D w/o my consent anyway. Therefore I may end up spending a lot of money on something that will happen sooner or later anyway. He isn't going to wait patiently for the total 5 years hence all the spew.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15