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hey

whatever the reason

use it to your advantage

is there anything else that he has that you would like

jump quick while the iron is hot

(sounds horrible but there are so many things that I wish I would have done while the opportunity was there)

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I think he may be softening you up and trying to be Mr. Nice Guy so that you will go after him or ask for less because he is nice. Just be careful.

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Fig,

My thoughts exactly!! this is why I moved out certain things he gave me BEFORE he he gets evil again and changes his mind. My mom said she can keep some stuff. So now he is really wondering where I am stashing the stuff and doesnt beleive me when I told him its @ mom's?? Thinks I sold the stuff for $. Right, I am hard up on $ but not to that extreme.
Also thinks I am not telling him where I am moving on purpose?! *I* dont even know where I will be living!! Mom said we can stay w/ her until I get a place, for I cant get it w/out the $ from selling our house. Which BTW our house sold in just TWO weeks!!!

Trip,
I am ON to him..yeah I know.

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Sorry, this happening the way it is for you. It sucks that he is questioning you on things. Too bad for him even if you did sell them. It's your prerogative.

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H is still behaving very strangely.......
very nice, very calm,
Last night when he came over to pick up the kids, I was folding clothes in my room & he came over and just stared at me for the longest time, I was not paying attention as I continued not making any eye contact and then he giggled a bit as I looked up at him and asked what was so funny...
He said nothing, just laughing to myself..

I dont know if he wanted to make a smart remark to my new hair color ( went back to blonde highlights again)..
BUT in the past if he didnt like it he would put me down..so Anyhoo..who knows, I am no longer wasting my precious time wondering or trying to figure him out.

Then as he was closing the garage door, I put a stop to it as I was going to put out the trash..he must of thought I wanted to tell him something since he stopped from backing up his car and just sat waiting. He watched as I put out the trash and tried to be 'funny' by saying "its about time u do something'.

All the while dhe is still backing up and then he just sat there w/ the windows up..watching me??
I finally looked up to say goodnight & he opened his window to say it back..

Strange....

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they are strange creatures indeed


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"it's about time u do something".

I would so be biting my tongue. Well, knowing me I wouldn't but you get the drift.

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Yeah....i bit my tongue, he is so not worth the energy to get all hyped up....which is what he wants since he thrives on drama..

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You should have emptied the trash on his car. Saying "now you will be doing something"!

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Ha ha ha LMAO!!!

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