I have told myself that I cannot fix my WW or make her mind for her. If that is what she wants, the so be it. Nothing I can do. As long as she knows that she is ending our friendship because of her decision. I read another thread somewhere that he continued a close relationship and friendship with WW and she tried it out and it ended and they are now back together. Two different schools of thought. Which one works better depends on your particular sitch's and personalities, I guess. I have gone through the whole gamut of emotions and have conluded that I cannot control what she does. WW will do what she wants. I can only control myself and do for myself and my kids.


Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."