Hi W2G!
I understand what you mean about the investment, but thats still quite a commitment to make with someone you have left and I can only presume that he isnt planning to divorce you then? Its not a promise of reconciliation, no, but I'd say it was a positive sign. Its encouraging that he is taking on more commitments with you, not wanting to separate things further?

Sounds like you really enjoyed his company whilst he stayed with you and it was fun and not stressful.. so perhaps it will be a bit miserable for him to be in his apartment alone again, without you and his D around!

Ali xxx
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Me: 37 BF: 34 T: 9 years
IDLYA: 2 Nov 07
Own flat: 26 Jan 08
Depression confirmed: 4 Mar
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Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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