My mom left me a VM while I was teaching. Kids just went to music, so I checked her message.
SHE CALLED HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I DIDN'T WANT HER TO!!!!!!!!!!!!
She sounded all weepy on the phone (I HATE when I cry b/c my mom does it ALL THE TIME! ):
BBJ I did call Dan. I got his voicemail. I just told him that I felt like I needed to call him b/c I hadn't talked to him in so long and I wanted him to know that I am here for him if he ever wants someone to talk to. I told him that I support him and I love him. (She said the "I love him " part totally crying).
NOOOOOOOOOOO!
I want to crawl under a rock. I don't want H to think it was my idea or that I am using my mom to manipulate him. But if I say something to him, he will know I "know" about it. I am thinking "bury it, bury it with a shovel and bury the shovel" (a very old, obscure quote from the Coach tv show). Meaning, I say nothing and act as though I don't have a clue if H ever brings it up to me.
(Seriously, did she think H would say, yes, I am dying to pour my heart out to my wife's MOM? WTF? Mom did it b/c it made HER feel better. Grr)
I don't want to check this board again b/c I hate to imagine what you guys will have to say. I am just so freakin' embarrassed that my Mommy got involved. First my MIL gets MY kids kindergarten information. Now my mom has called my H???????? Can I go die now?
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