Quote: i was trying to assemble sort of a mental list of who the was's were
understandable, but of course each sit is different...some lbs are blown away...thought everything was great and whammo...they would never consider themselves to ever stand in the was shoes...I myself didn't leave...but sure thought of it often...
there were a few was here at one time but I think they got run off...(couldn't deal with real questions seemed to just be looking for validation in leaving)
I think it may be a scary thing for the lbs to realize that they were unhappy in the m too...then that may say the was was (that's funny isn't it) right in leaving..that the m really wasn't a good one or never really was and it's a good thing it's over...when in fact realizing that they weren't fully happy either shows room for growth both personal and in the r (if that opportunity arises)
I'm rambling now...
perhaps we could ask everyone what makes them stay married..or what drives them to work on the m...or what drives them to want to db in hopes that their spouse will return...love being one reason but obviously just one piece to the puzzle.
