I am surprising myself with how quiet I have been. But I will continue to be quiet, and have told my mom to do the same!
I do think it was nice of her to want to talk to H after all the crap he has pulled. If it were my D in this situation 30 years from now, I don't know if I would want to be nice to her H! But, although the thought was nice, I told her the action wasn't needed at this point.
It is strange to think that this weekend, I could/very well may be hearing my H say he doesn't want to try any more. I know he doesn't want a D, he has said so. And I know he will miss me, the kids, our life. But I am probably (most likely) asking him for more than he is capable of giving right now. I know that, but I have to ask for it any way. Because doing what we have been doing just wasn't working for me any longer.
