okay my corners might be something like this... there are two corners "on the ground"
let's see...
faith and self-esteem
and two "in the sky"
friendship and ugh... for lack of a better word... "romance"???
okay, so we got FAITH ~ SELF-ESTEEM ~ FRIENDSHIP ~ ROMANCE
okay
so for faith...
I'd like our R to be based on faith that god loves us and wants only the very best for us... the very first sign I notice that this is happening is when I'm able to give my distress to the Big Guy and say "Here, You fix it... (please)." The very first sign that my H is letting go and letting god will be... um.... have to think about that.
and now for self-esteem...
I KNOW I'm working on mine. It's a lot of work too!
for Friendship...
okay, I'd like to be able to be upset and not have Mat take it like he has to fix it, or that he's responsible for it. This tends to send him into a spiral and so I have to then "take care" of him. I'm not able to be weak. I know a lot of that's me, but some of it's Mat's too.
now... for "romance"....
that's another thread entirely...
lostlove, kip??? thanks for stopping by i'll be wi'ch'all if i keep moving this way...
Please send any WAS's you know to this thread... I'm interested in meeting all of them/er... you...