Have you thought that maybe this anger is not directed particularly at you. I know you are on the receiving end of it but perhaps the source of the anger is at herself and at the mess she has created.
I am not saying in anyway that she is right to let you bare the brunt of it, but maybe you can detach better, or cope with it more easily if you acknowledge that you are not the cause.
Don't let her current anger destroy your feelings for what you are fighting for. I know that is MUCH easier said than done.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
