Despite what it feels like right now; you are helping her indirectly by detaching and becoming strong and healthy. You are the proverbial 'lighthouse'. When the storm in her mind is such that she can no longer see the shore she will see you standing strong and true as always
NC
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
