Exactly you did your relationship differently than I did. The way you did it worked for you...the way I did mine worked for me.

---------->what part of this is exactly working for you? Just because you lack self respect and co-dependancy doesn't really show it's working. a) you are a bootie call for your husband and b) you lack self respect/love for you (hence the need to have another man SO quickly and before you knew your husband had another woman).

You're right- it's working great for you. Good luck. You are not ready to work on you or your marriage. I just hope it doesn't really bite you in the end. Most are seeing it, but you don't want to or are not ready for it.


M: 39
H: 40
D: 12
S: 9
Married: 10 years
Together: 11 years
Dday- March 14th, 2008
Bomb-I don't love you-Easter 2008

Currently-living in same home, slowly working back towards a marriage.