Exactly you did your relationship differently than I did. The way you did it worked for you...the way I did mine worked for me.
I am not coming down on anyone here...just trying to explain why I do what I do and make the choices I make. But maybe I can't properly explain it without it coming across as being a nasty Queen B as FG calls me...so for that I apologize.
We are all in similar situations but no 2 of our situations are exactly the same...hence my mile in my shoes comment...you have probably walked half the mile in my shoes...lol.
Both 35 T 19/M 15 years S8/D5 It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07
