Hey RTL, I found you again!
Wow, so much drama from your W. Well, I guess you could just send her a warm and polite text, as though she were a friend? Saying, ok it would be lovely to be at the party if D would like me there and you feel comfortable with me attending? Or someting neutral? In the end this incident isnt going to make or break your sitch.. but going to the party is an interesting one. Although its a kids party, so there will be lots going on, its still a chance to spend some time in your Ws company, so you need to be in DB mode, right! And show her you are acting as if, or not as controlling as you used to be. I think its great that you're getting all that expert help from the DB coaches, can they offer you any advice about the party?

Ali
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Me: 37 BF: 34 T: 9 years
IDLYA: 2 Nov 07
Own flat: 26 Jan 08
Depression confirmed: 4 Mar


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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