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the only one he will admit he has to stop drinking is our son


That is a terrible burden on your son. My opinion is torn b/c part of me thinks he shouldn't be putting this burden on your S17 but on the other hand it is providing a link to the family.

SF take care of yourself. I hope he didn't go back to OW and that he is just holed up somewhere thinking things through. My heart goes out to you. I think you need YRs advice here she is the only one I know that has been through a similar sitch.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15