Oh no that is awful. His poor son must have been terrified.

It is frightening not knowing what to expect one day from the next. How do these people we marry change into someone so unrecognisable. The main difficulty I faced in the early days was feeling such a fool for not ‘seeing’ what my H was really like. I felt I couldn’t trust my own judgement on people. But on reflection and with research I understood that brain chemistry can change, and so the person changes. What you end up with is not always what you started with. \:\(


I am gutted for FIB; he doesn’t need or deserve this.

NC.


Be The Greener Grass.


Me 40
H 42
Son 11
Married 15 years.
Left May 2006 after gambling spree
I had EA August 2006
OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!)
I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.