ok guys, hang on to yourhats. I may be pregnant. after h dropped the initial bomb and before I found out about affair we were having sex (I know this is typical now.
Last week I had a very wierd period (sorry guys). very nasuaus .everyting - just like when I was pregnant with daughter. I took two birth control tests. one came up positive, second came up neg (I think). I called obgyn right away. she said I'm showing classic symytoms of pregnancy,but obvously need to come in. This is not until a week from tomorrow. Couldn't get anthingg sooner.
Well, I lovingly (db'd) to h. I told him that I don't expect it to change things.
He literally called me all day yesterday from work. What do I want to do, etc. He said that this complicates things for him (duh!). I just said (very db) thath if it is true, I would like him to love the child like he loves our duaghter now but am not expecting anything more than that.
He then said, if it's true, he wants to work on the marriage.
I didn't respond.
WTF?? now that I am thinking about it, WHY doesn't he want to work on the marriage with the child he has NOW????
I said none of this to him. totally db'd.
When he got home from work he was very quiet and contemplative. I just went to bed.
