ping, thanks for your observations and no, you did not come across as being rude at all. I had the exact same thoughts when he mentioned getting a motorcycle (he's talking about a used one, not new) but kept them to myself and instead I showed some interest in what he was saying. He told me again tonight that he can't continue living in the place he is in now, that he's looking at one more place tomorrow and if it's not suitable...he didn't really finish the sentence. I didn't comment on any of it. I made it clear to him when we talked a couple of days ago that if he moves back I want it to be for the right reasons, that we both want to work on the marriage, not just for convenience. I do know that he's still confused. When the time comes, I'll have to decide whether I think he's speaking from the heart.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
