Honey, I hope you don't think that I am judging you. The choices you have made are just not the ones I would choose to follow. But this is your life and you have to live it according to what you need. I am concerned about your well being. Both physically (I hope you and your H and all partners involved are being safe) and emotionally. I am also concerned about your children, especially because you have expressed how your son is having a difficult time with all this. I have been praying for him regularly and hope he is doing a little better.
Sara
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08