Totally Lost after 23 years

[CBK]

Thanks - I actually do most of those things - it was the emotional connection that we lost in our marriage. I knew something was amiss, so I was very nervous around her - felt like a middle school kid, always tongue tied. I treated our conversations more like a business, talked to much, didn't listen enough for the clues that she wasn't happy. I am trying that now but know I am being judged by everthing I say, trying to more comfortable, but she won't let me in right now, so I just have to chip away at the ice.

I know this will be months - doesn't make it easier though!

Thanks again