Totally Lost after 23 years

[CBK]

That will be up to her about the OM. She is ashamed in many ways about him. Only our therapists know and one of her good friends and one of mine that is all the way across the country and the kids don't know.

She feels that if the kids found out, everybody would and she would possibly loose even more - friends, possibly the kids, possibly her job. So not a good thing.