I'm so sorry you are having to go through this again.
Protect your heart and don't just go dark.....GO BLACK! Completely!
Your kids are old enough that if they want to see him then they can contact him themselves. Don't talk to him, text, accept texts from him, emails, NOTHING!
I know you are so strong and able to do this. Do it for you....not him. He has to figure his own crap out now. You can't be worrying about him anymore. It will only drag you down and destroy you.
Much love and hugs to you SF. You are an awesome woman with awesome strength. I'm praying for you and your family.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!