Kiss,
Good for you. You have a great attitude. As far as God goes, it is hard sometimes not to be angry with him, but I can say that because of what happened and how it could have been worse, I have proof that God exists.

Just do me a favor: Hope for the best, prepare for the worst. My wife (now ex.) has done some of the meanest things that anybody has ever done to me over the last year. I am having a really hard time forgiving. Probably really not in my nature. But I wouldn't trade the 16 great years I did have. Nobody can EVER take that away from me. Just remember that.

Me: 47
Pet: Kind labrador, 12 years old. Best Friend anybody could have.

Divorce final 12/07/07
No Kids

It is no longer about the divorce or about her. It's all about how I live my life now.