I swear that my stbxh is beyond crazy some days. This week he can't wait to get rid of me and has reverted back to blaming me 100% for our failed marriage. He had the nerve to tell me that I was crazy to think that we were 50/50 at fault cuz it's ALL me!! WTH is that???
LO, I don't intend this to come off sounding insensitive, but I had to laugh when I read this. Hmmmmm....let's see he had an affair and it's 100% your fault that your marriage is failing. So I'm assuming you are the one that held a gun to his head and told him to have sex with the OW. Do you have a license to carry that gun?
Okay, now that you shared your crazy H story let me go ahead and share mine. About 2 weeks ago H and I went to a charity dance together. Okay, keep in mind that I got a little tipsy while there. We went back to his house and he fell asleep/passed out, so I decided to snoop (yes, I know a big no-no) but I just had to see for myself if he was still involved with her (he kept denying that he was). I checked his phone and there were 3 missed calls from the ______(be my guest to fill in with any word you would like describing the OW). Remember the wine was making me brave so I decided to hit the call button on his phone and call her on his phone! I told her to leave him alone. She said she wasn't bothering him. I said 'why are you calling him then?" Are you ready for this answer she gave me? "He's my boss, so I need to call him about work." I said,"At midnight? I don't call my boss three times in one night and certainly not a midnight" She then didn't believe it was me on the phone, said it was my DD16. WTH? She didn't believe I was with him. I could not convince her that it was me, so I said "I'll just let you talk to him" and I woke him up and handed him the phone. Well, guess what my husband said when it was all over. He said it was none of my da*n business to be looking at his phone. I handed him my phone and told him he was welcome to look through mine. Now here are my winners for the most ridiculous thing ever said by a WAS.
"You crossed the line when you called her." (I thought he was the one that crossed the line a while ago!) "You just cost me my secretary" to which I replied, "Well, good she cost me my marriage"
I didn't mean to hijack your thread, but I just had to let you know that our H's belong to the same society. "Lost their Freaking Mind" society!!!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
