dbs,

Just be cool and play things by ear. When you start thinking too much, you get into trouble.

Now to your question:
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Are the counselors right?-I should move on?
I always hated the phrase "move on." What it always seems to me ids go find someone else. that is why I always preferred to say move forward. We should always move forward with our lives. We don;t need another person to do that. I have been divorced over 7 years and am happy to say I am single and glad to be so.

Enjoy the life you have not the one you thought you wanted.

IMP