I am still trying to figure out the 180 - I have a lot of work to do on my own to accomplish this and am willing to get there. I have a few good books and am thinking about going to one of the Work schools - but the next one isn't until June.
I know I need to reconnect, listen more, really hear what she is saying. I do get this.
Interesting I shouldn't talk about the OM - even in counseling? I am bummed she called him, but that was her choice, not mine. In DR, Michelle did say ask questions - but be careful as you may not want to hear the answers. Right now, I have a good idea of what went on, how they met, etc. Is that enough? How do I get past the OM?
I am dying to call right now as I just found out about ten minutes ago that our company is going though a huge restructure - luckily I am very safe, but still will add more stress to the mixture. Do I just keep all of this to myself?
I am going to get a DB counselor after I read the book one more time and get some thoughts on paper.
I am sure I sound like many posters, but in all my life, I never thought I would be here!
