Yes, the letter did some good I believe. The letter was suggested by the MC-homework for us. It was a heartfelt letter taking responsibility and accountability for my parts of the carnage of our M, but also a letter telling her I was letting her go if she chooses to go. I have to maintain a positive image for her and not backslide. Seems like I always take a step forward then take two back.
My W always thought I had no clue. I had a clue, just did not know how to fix it(me). I feel I am on the right track now.
