I'm better today, but still at a loss. h is spending 2 nights out (of course with ow) and i accept it to a degree. what else can i do? we have to live under same roof for finincail resaons. I don't know what to do anymore.
I am NOT bringing her up or even asking a thing about her or their r. I refuse. I am treating him like a neigbor (advise I got on here).
I AM noticing that when I am pleasant, etc. he is def. "softening" and nicer.
