Hi guys. D had her swim meet today and did very well. She got silver on the front crawl and 4th place on the back stroke! She's not impressed with the back stroke! LOL! She's very competitive. Thanks for the responses to my question. I'll try and shut up when if gets talking and I'll try and see it as a chance to really listen to him. I don't think I'm doing such a good job with DB because I'm not seeing the results I'm looking for. Maybe I'll stop looking then I'll feel more positive. H and I are looking forward to being friends but at this rate it's just hopes. I also need to cut down on the controlling behavior by remembering I can only control myself and never H. Well anyways I'm still using my mobile. I'll check in on you chicks now. Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*