you walk a mile in my shoes you shouldn't act like you are better than me simply because you haven't done it.
Do you realize how insulting that is? What makes you think that you are the only one to walk on a certain path? At least when I dated, I had divorce papers in hand. And even then at best< i had a short relationship because I was not over the old one.
Seriously, I didn't judge you. I simply asked you if you told this man what you had told us and you didn't. You even admitted it was a poor way to start a relationship. And you went out before you knew our H was having an affair, so don't come at us all high and mighty.
Now. The question. Are you interested in saving your marriage? If so, then act like it.
