Regarding the MIL

I very nicely called her around 5. Told her I called the school re. kindergarten round up and they said they had mailed her the info. She played dumb, said she hasn't seen any mail for us. I said please keep an eye out, and that I would just call the school tomorrow and have them look the information up for me. Not a single mean/nasty comment spoken... ;\)

And yes, I am doing my best to "stick to my guns" as they say. I know what I want, I know what I deserve. H has openly acknowledged that everything I want is very realistic, I am not "piling on" pointless demands/expectations. I want what any woman wants, a husband who is "there" emotionally and physically, who can be supportive and let his wife support him, too.

I just want the whole package, not two of us under the same roof for the sake of the kids, reputations, etc. He knows it, and I am 99% sure he wants it too. He just doesn't have the kind of faith I have that it can really happen AND, more importantly for him I think, that he actually DESERVES it after all that has happened....


Me-35

Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

The LORD your God is with you,
he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17