Thanks GL, you have a way of putting things that make much more sense than I can think of them. I like your analogy you put forth.
W must really hold me hostage for our kids, this weekend I had them and my S7 said he wanted to go to Disney World this year, I sent an email to W of when they would start back school at the end of the summer as I want to plan a trip with the kids. She replied with when they would be starting back, then I told her what I was planning. Her comments were, "do you think you can keep up with both of them there, it is a busy place, also it bothers me that after I told you not to let them walk to there friends house in the neighborhood you still let them." I am having a tough time with this, there friend lives less than a 5 minute walk. Do I just say the heck with it or honor what she is wanting. I know your going to tell me to honor what she is saying but I have to tell you I just don't believe in this. Go ahead, let me have it.
Also, we have an anniversary coming up on Friday, it's actually the anniversary of when we first started dating 22 years ago, I have always treated this like a second anniversary date for us. Do I send flowers or anything like that? I am not sure of what the right approach would be on this issue, part of me wants to send flowers and another part of me just says let it go. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks.
