Hi CBK!
Happy to hear that the GALs at work. IMO, your goals are do-able. As for prompting him to wish you a good night night...why don't you STOP the prompting and see where it leads you. Some people hate to be reminded.

I hope you enjoy x-tra time with the children. Are you sure that they won't find out? Your children are adults. They are pretty intuitive.

Keep us posted,
/Tia