Well, in some ways, a sprain is worse than a fracture. I sprained my ankle at the beginning of February and am still feeling the effects. So, I sympathize with him. I hope he recovers soon.
He's doing so much better today. The doctor told him to walk it off, and that's exactly what he's been doing since then.
You know, you made me think, Michelle. When you said that you can sympathize with my H......Sometimes I feel like I cannot. I love him, I care about him, but there is still some resentment inside. It's not like I relive the past in my mind everyday or anything like that, because I don't at all. But it almost feels like there's a permanent impression...or depression...in my heart and mind that takes over when H is looking for sympathy and empathy. It's like where was it when I wanted it from him? Oh that's right - he didn't care. Otherwise, he wouldn't have treated me with such disregard, such hatred at times.
He has apologized, numerous times, for all of it.....but it's when he does it again and again.....that's what makes it difficult to believe whether or not he's truly sorry. The actions to support the apologies come and go as well.
Last edited by GoingForward; 04/15/0811:19 PM.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
