The commonalities here, amoung the LBSers... we are the care givers, the providers, the worriers, the selfless. I think we hold onto the idea of loving 'one' person a bit tighter than others
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So if we are as you stated above
what are they?
Could it be that some of us "hold onto" the ideal of the love we had/have for our missing spouses?
When they do comeback they do not comeback as we anticipated either. Partly because we are what you stated above, we have grown, learned valuable lessons.
Sometimes I think they comeback with a chip on thier shoulders as if they are doing us a favor.
No, I do not mean all. There are many in piecing that do not appear that way, yet there are many that do.
Some even comeback and cannot let go of the OP. Is it fair to us to let that happen? We seem to be the only givers as we want to achieve our goal of regaining our once happy marriage.
Can it be said the when the spouse does come home they do not hold the OP in a special place?
Ugh!
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
