Michele says, "more of the same" behavior, brings "more of the same" results. If something is broken, do something differently! So...name two things in your relationship that you'd like to see change in two weeks? Break these two goals into positively-stated, action-oriented, and small, do-able chunks. Michele then recommends that you ask yourselk, "What would be the first sign that you're headed into the right direction?"
Still, you need to stay away from pursuing behavior. This includes: nagging, crying, yelling, and participating in R talk. Then, come back and give us a report.
